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16 days ago

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Travelling with autistic children

I haven’t had the energy to share our trip over the past couple of days. I’d love to tell you that Miss I's long awaited GC holiday has been a huge success… but the fact is it’s been really challenging for her (and us) between the smiles. Despite the hours of advocating with airlines, venues etc prior to leaving to make sure things went smoothly, and the many hours of prepping visual support tools; there are still things we can’t predict and plan for. It’s still completely overwhelming for her senses and hard for her to express her needs, wants & emotions. I’ve found myself questioning whether it’s even worth it, going on these holidays. Then I see moments of wonder & joy in her face, the times where Mr Cis the most epic big brother, the hug between my husband and I when no one is looking, and I know we have to keep trying. Because seeing the world is important to her (and us). Everyday Imogen sees some new and wonderful place on YouTube and says something like “Imogen, Bali (or Hawaii or Tokyo or United States of America) 2023. OK?!” How can I tell her that those experiences are not available to her? I can’t and I won’t. So we will keep practicing these travel skills in smaller spurts, despite the challenges, exhaustion, staring eyes and lack of understanding. Because between these things, there’s also been kindness, compassion, understanding and a willingness to learn about inclusive practices; which I’m so grateful for. Those people have been rays of light on this tr
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16 days ago

I can empathise with your experience, I plan trips 6+ months in advance so we have added prep time but the sensory journey still kicks in and the kids become overwhelmed. My eldest wants to go to Tasmania next year so that is going to be an interesting trip I told her we will go in 2024 as I need more planning time and itineraries done. So lots of research. But the special moments of a laugh, a smile or any kind of joy is what I hold onto on our family trips. Sending you strength and energy xo

15 days ago

The moments of wonder and joy and where the rays of light break through, may they expand 💫 May the world 🌎 change around us and be the accessible and inclusive place for all us

15 days ago

This post speaks to me so much, but you are able to put it into words way better! Our holidays have been full on with a lot of strategies put in place but with a lot of sensory overload moments that we negotiate in between. You are an amazing Mumma for always helping your girl to love her travel dreams! ❤️

15 days ago

I can totally understand this. We’ve done only one two night stay away and it was relatively close to home to test the waters. It was ok for a first go but the next trip I want to go on is at least a week and 6 hours from home.

14 days ago

Holidays are hard 💔 as much as you plan and try not to have high expectations they always hurt a little. But somehow u still leave remembering all the good moments xo

16 days ago

Travelling with autistic children
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